My dear friend,
What if today I told you there is one word that if you can use it properly will give you more time, stability and greater success?
And what if I told you that word you could start using it where you are now and start seeing its beautiful fruits?
Friend, the answer is yes, that word exists and today you will know it and how to use it to get good fruit.
Essential resources are limited.
Time is a very important resource for you, but it is unlimited, you only have 24 hours a day, you can't add these one second.
Spending your time on one thing is failing to spend it on another.
Money is an important resource, but when you start travels are limited. Spending money on one thing is failing to spend on another.
Your body energy is limitless, you get tired of doing different things. When you do one thing and you get tired, you fail to do another.
Your attention is limited, you cannot focus on two things at the same time, you must give up all else and focus on one thing.
As we see here, those vital resources are endless.
The question is how can you control and use them properly to make a difference in your life?
That's where the importance of the word we're going to learn here comes. The Word that will give you more time, greater stability, focus and greater success.
The word is NO.
No it is a simple word but with great miracles in everyone's life.
If you examine your life, you will find that every time you get into trouble you fail to use the word no.
You had a little money but failed to say no, what happened was to spend it all and get into debt.
You know you have a lack of time but you are not ready to say no to a lot that comes to you, what happens is you have a lot to do while time is not enough, you are producing stress.
I would say no problem or challenge you have ever entered that could not be prevented by using the word no.
When using the word NO.
You may know the importance of the word no, but you know the right time to use it.
Author Seth Godin has shared some important criteria to use to say no.
And here we go through them briefly, so that you too can create your own that will help you.
1. If you can't be proud of what you will do, don't do it.
2. If you can't do the best job don't accept it.
3. If it will be inconvenient for you to do what is most important, let it pass you by.
4. If you don't know why people want you to do what they tell you to do, ask.
5. If you have to hide from your mother, think twice.
6. If it will only benefit you and not benefit those you care about, refuse.
7. If you follow the trend, be shocked.
8. If it builds a habit that will cost you in the future, do not start.
9. If it doesn't push you further, six then let go.
When you choose to say YES, say yes to it and do something better and more beneficial.
It is not easy to use the word NO.
We have seen how important the word NO is and how useful it is.
But unfortunately, it is not an easy word to use.
NO it is not easy to say for two main reasons.
One is to see if someone is missing out on a great opportunity. You see, if you say no, you are missing out on an opportunity that could benefit you.
But you should not be fooled by this, know that there are opportunities everywhere and choose the things you say yes and use the opportunities that are within those things.
Two is not wanting to hurt others. By answering people no they feel bad and see we don’t care. So to avoid hurting them you answer yes, even though in you you know you absolutely do not want to.
What happens is you end up hurting yourself and even them, because you are not doing your best.
You don't have to say no to cruelty and hurt others.
Explain to them in good faith that you will not be able to do what they want and advise you on the best way for them to get what they want.
There are those who will understand you and there are those who will not understand you. The important thing is that you have used no to protect the resources that are important to you.
It is also not necessary to give a reason for your NO, no it is a word that is a complete sentence.
You do not need to say NO because…
You just say no and it's quite enough.
Steps to take.
You have seen how the word NO has a great impact on your success.
Set your own rules for when to say YES and when to say NO.
Start with the purpose of your life and your big dreams. Those are the two main areas of saying YES.
All the rest your answer should be NO.
Whenever you encounter new opportunities or people come up with suggestions for you, ask yourself how they affect or affect those two areas for you.
Say Yes if they are stimulated and no if we are affected.
Learn to say no to productive noises for yourself and others.
Your immediate wishes should not be a hindrance to your long-term goals.
Say no in order to make the most of your resources for the most important and far-reaching things.
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