"No one can succeed in achieving the goals he has in his life by doing it alone, everyone needs other people in order to be successful"
The Kinds of Friends You Need in Your Life To Fulfill Your Goals Faster.
In your life there are the kind of people you need in order to be successful in your life and to quickly get to where you want to be.
These friends do not come by chance but you have to put in place a special strategy and effort to find them so that they can be of help to you.
Today I would like to take a look at the kind of friends that every successful person made the effort to have. The big question here for you is, do you have friends like that?
1. A friend called “MUST FRIEND”
This is a friend who is very important in your life and who every time something big happens in your life you have to find him to talk to.
This friend may not be in contact with you every day or so but he is someone you know that for any big thing that concerns your life you must share it with him. You usually trust a friend like that and are not afraid that even if you tell him your inner things, you will never hear him talk the next day.
Whenever you have a very difficult thing about your life and you have problems and decisions to make then this friend is the one you will look for and get his advice.
Such a person is that your problem becomes his problem and when you are successful or happy he is really happy with you.
You trust him that whenever you need help, he will do his best to help you.
2. A friend called RED CARPET
Everyone there comes at a time when they begin to feel insecure about what they have decided to do in their life. There are times when you may fail at a level where you no longer feel confident that you can move forward again. This is where "Red Carpet Friend" is needed.
This friend is the one who believes most in your abilities sometimes even more than you see yourself as possible.
This friend can see your weaknesses and still tolerate them and say more about your strengths and weaknesses than your weaknesses.
In other words this is a person who will always be using his time to encourage you and show you how you can be more successful than you are at the moment.
The biggest challenge for these friends is that they find it difficult to criticize you in order to improve. These see only your goodness, and not by hypocrisy but by what they are.
These are important to help you especially in a situation where you feel unworthy and can't move one step further. We also call this friend the Motivator.
Do you have a friend like this?
3. A friend called "STRICT CORP"
This friend does not see any problem in criticizing you or telling you the truth. He may not be good to praise but he can see your flaws and mistakes more quickly than you or anyone else. The big difference she has with all the others is that she always does it because she loves you.
If you want to get to know him it is very easy, even if you yourself are criticized by this person you often get angry because you know he loves you.
Often such friends are people who like to joke or represent their words in jokes or jokes where at the end of the day you find yourself getting angry and you laugh at being told the truth while he is joking.
This one is sometimes called the challenger.
4. A friend called “ACCOUNTABILITY PARTER”
This is called a friend to help you take responsibility. Too often if we do not have a system to hold us accountable we have been too lazy to achieve our big goals in life.
This friend is the one who knows the goals you have in life and the big vision you have and his main job is to remind you and see that you continue to stay in line without hesitation.
It is recommended that you share your things with her and that you take the time to talk to her every once in a while.
4 Ways to Take Care of Your Best Friends So You Don't Lose Them
1. Presence When They Need You.
There is nothing more powerful than being there for your friends when they need you. It could be that they are experiencing tragedies, their important days such as birthdays, illnesses etc. In short it is that you are striving to be present at all the important moments of the 2 types of their lives.
a. A time when they are very happy.
This can be a time when they are successful in something. Graduates, awards etc
b. When they are very sad.
A period in which they have experienced a tragedy, an accident or a tragic event in their life.
2. Tell them "I was thinking of you"
It is often very difficult especially for men, but spending seconds and telling someone I greet you because I remember it is the most powerful thing in life. Sometimes you can see an event or pass a certain area and it reminded someone then do not hesitate to seek him out by calling him or texting him "I remember you today". There doesn't have to be something very strange to do to him when you remember someone.
I know here when you read there you have remembered someone and you wish to tell them, then take a moment and tell them that you remember him and you will see how happy he will be. Remember that man's greatest need is not money but to be seen as an important person.
3. Admit when you are wrong
One of the things that drives most friends in the lives of most people is the tendency to think that they are always the same and that they can never go wrong. There are people who have lost the most important people in their lives because of their failure to admit their mistakes.
These are the people who are often called Mr. and Mrs. Right. They believe everyone is wrong and they are the same, every time they comment they want what they say to be more acceptable than anyone else.
Each time you realize that you have made a mistake and accept it, you increase the strength of the relationship you have with your important friends in your life.
4. Don't assume for sure (don't assume)
Have you ever been angry with your friend for something and then when he came to give you information and found yourself thinking you were completely different?
Among the things that have ruined the relationships of many friends is the hypothesis that is not true. For every relationship you have, try to find the truth of things realistically and not use assumptions.
Learn not to make any decisions in your life by using your imagination without seeking the truth.
EXERCISE
Try to evaluate the friends you have and then make sure you are looking for an Accountability Friend
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