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| Don't Let a Boyfriend Stop You from Getting a Husband |
By Jumanne Mwita | jumanne255.com
Table of Contents
- Introduction
- Wasted Years in Relationships
- Loyalty is for Marriage
- Real Life Example
- What You Should Do
- Final Thoughts
Introduction
Don't allow your boyfriend to stop you from getting your husband. This is not about hating love—it’s about understanding timing, purpose, and knowing your worth. Many women have stayed loyal in sexual relationships that have no sign of marriage and ended up broken.
Wasted Years in Relationships
A man who wastes your time might not be your future husband. If you're in a sexual relationship for years without progress, chances are he's not planning to marry you. Two, three, five, even eight years later—no ring, no commitment? That’s not loyalty. That’s self-sabotage.
Loyalty is for Marriage
There’s no loyalty in sexual relationships. Loyalty belongs to marriage. If you’re not married, don’t treat that man like a husband. Sex doesn’t equal commitment. And commitment without marriage is just convenience—for him.
Real Life Example
I saw a case. A woman got engaged at 24. She waited faithfully. At 40, the man left her and married a 24-year-old girl. That woman wasted 16 years waiting for a promise that never came. You are not her—but you could be her if you don’t act.
What You Should Do
If you’ve been with your boyfriend for 2–3 years and there’s no sign of marriage—leave. Don't wait to be 30, 34, 38 and still single because of fake loyalty. Betray him and find your real husband. A man who wants to marry you will show it in the first year. Real men act early.
Final Thoughts
You were born to be a wife, not a girlfriend forever. Don’t allow any man to block your blessing. Use your time wisely. If he's not marrying you, stop giving him wife privileges. Save your time, your youth, your energy—for your husband.
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About the Author: Jumanne Mwita is a passionate Tanzanian writer, entrepreneur, and educator who uses his platform jumanne255.com to share life lessons, business insights, and societal reflections to inspire transformation and personal growth.
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